Hexagram 31

Influence (Wooing)

Induction, speed, love between men and women

The wisdom of the Xian hexagram lies in the word "gan" (influence). It tells us that the most precious thing between people is the sincere connection that comes from the heart and does not require words. The depth of this connection does not depend on external actions, but on the inner state.

Trigram Structure

䷞, Dui above, Gen below

Palace

Key Themes

Induction, speed, love between men and women

Situational Guidance

The wisdom of the Xian hexagram lies in the word "gan" (influence). It tells us that the most precious thing between people is the sincere connection that comes from the heart and does not require words. The depth of this connection does not depend on external actions, but on the inner state.

Judgement

Xian: Henry, good luck, good luck in marrying a girl.

Natural Symbolism

Lake on a mountaintop (mountain qi rises, lake qi descends, mutual influence), magnetism, resonance.

Associated Objects

Magnet, tuner, antenna, electrocardiogram.

Life Application & Summary

The wisdom of the Xian hexagram lies in the word "gan" (influence). It tells us that the most precious thing between people is the sincere connection that comes from the heart and does not require words. The depth of this connection does not depend on external actions, but on the inner state.

Line-by-line Interpretation

Line 1

Xianqi, Jiao.

Guidance

Influencing the big toe; the beginning of influence, still shallow.

Modern Insight

This is the initial stage of influence. Your feelings or connections are just beginning, like the big toe—the most distant part. At this time, do not rush; let things develop naturally. True influence needs time to deepen.

Line 2

Xianqi, fierce, Juji, Juji.

Guidance

Influencing the calf; dangerous, but if you remain still, it is auspicious.

Modern Insight

The influence has deepened, reaching the calf. You feel a strong attraction, but this line warns: do not act rashly. Remain still, let the influence develop naturally. Premature action will only bring danger.

Line 3

Xianqi, Juji, Ju Xing, Juji.

Guidance

Influencing the thigh; following others, going forward is dangerous.

Modern Insight

The influence has reached the thigh, very close to the core. But this line warns: do not blindly follow others. You must maintain your independence and judgment. Following others without thinking will lead to danger.

Line 4

Zhenji, regret, and go back and forth. Mingru, follow what you think.

Guidance

Maintaining the right path brings fortune; regret disappears; coming and going, friends follow your thoughts.

Modern Insight

This is the key turning point. You maintain the right path, and your sincerity attracts like-minded friends. They come and go, following your thoughts. This is the ideal state of mutual influence—sincere and natural.

Line 5

Xianqi, Mei, no regret.

Guidance

Influencing the back; no regret.

Modern Insight

The influence has reached the back—the most stable and reliable part. Your connection is deep and stable, like the back supporting the body. This is a mature, reliable relationship that brings no regret.

Line 6

Xianqi, Jiao, Jia, She.

Guidance

Influencing the cheeks, tongue, and jaw; speaking and expressing.

Modern Insight

The influence has reached the face—the most expressive part. This represents verbal communication and expression. True influence is not just feeling, but also needs to be expressed and communicated. This is the completion of the influence process.

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